Hello, I'm sorry for starting so many new topics lately, but I just wanted to get a little advice on what to do for my tank.

This Friday I am having spine surgery (the doctors are going to fuse 10 vertebrae in my upper lumbar with rods and screws) and my sister will be helping me to mantain my tank for the next month or so while I recover. Because I am staying 4-5 nights at the hospital, I am going to do a large water change the day before I go in. When I do the water change I'm considering taking out all the gravel to make it easier for my sister to help with weekly syphoning. Will it be too much of a shock for my fish to remove all the benificial bacteria housed in the gravel? Also, can they go without food for a couple of days while I'm with my family at the hospital? And do you have any suggestions for having somebody else care for your fish?

Thank you...any advice would be appreciated. 

Thank you for your support, MB Gold.  So I should take out, like only a 1/4 of it or up to 1/2 tommorrow, and then the rest of it in a week or so? Like you said about the mini-cycle...definately don't want that to happen; especially while I'm not away to monitor them. I really don't like the idea of anyone having to take care of my fish for me, but it can't be helped.  Also, do they have to have the lights turned on and off for that ammount of time I'm gone? Just wondering and thanks for your help. 

I would leave it as it is, a giant water change will be all they need, and I wouldn't have anyone feed them until you're back home to supervise If the person doesn't have fish themselves it usually ends up with overfeeding. Goldfish can easily survive for 15 days without food since they're finding all kinds of edibles in the tank on their own

Good luck with the surgery!! It sounds intense, I hope you won't be in too much pain afterwards :/

good luck with the surgery Goldiegirl, its always a little daunting to go thru something like that, you might be happy to hear my mother had that op years ago and it really helped her back pain and mobility... and I speak from experience, Ive had a ton of operations as I broke my hip and shattered every bone in my left leg 8 years ago and then can you believe I did something similar again two years ago, both were motorcycle accidents, it is truly amazing what orthapedic surgeons can do these days...I think at last count just my lower left leg contains 20 screws, two plates, one steel rod and some sort of steel mesh wrapping the bone in places, and to top it off I have a massive skin graft from ankle to knee to really make it unattractive, lol... wishing you a speady recovery... Regards > Ron

Ps: also your post on choosing healthy goldfish became a sticky... well done

If you don't have any changes in your water test results, you should be able to remove about the same amount as you took out today when you do your next water change. I would just test a lot and err on the side of caution

you take it a day at a time Goldiegirl, and it has given me the time to do other things that I really wanted to do... I wanted a change of life anyway... good luck and best wishes > Ron

It's good to be back on the forum - the surgery was sucessful, though I ended up staying in the hospital for 6 days. Once the doctor got into my back he ended up fusing more than 10 vertabrae like as planned...not sure how many until I see the x-rays...recovery is very painful, today is the first day I am able to sit up at the computor. I am allergic to the narcotics (that was not enjoyable to find out) prescribed by the hospital so Tylonol is my only friend. Fortunately my fish are still alive and kicking, I was able to conduct a water change yesterday with many breaks in between and some man-power to haul the water. The gravel is all gone and I am monitoring the water quality like a hawk so no spikes occur.

Last night was the 2nd night I was able to get about 6 hours of sleep, and when I do I get night terrors...I haven't been able to sleep for more than 2 hours a night before so that was a milestone. Each day is slowly getting better, but this is seriously the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. Thank you for your advice so I can have one less thing to worry about.

Ummm Goldiegirl whats a night terror?

Sorry to hear of your pain Goldie, major surgery is always the worst, its the anaesthetic and how long your under that really affects you I think, I never handle it well, although over the years we have found better ways for my surgeons etc to deal with my reactions... Hows your sense of taste? it takes me a while to get that back... and you do get a little better each day, I would set small goals for myself, the hard part is not overdoing it and setting yourself back... sometimes we take 1 step forward followed by 2 steps back, which does affect you a bit mentally sometimes, you just have to try to stay positive and put it down to experience and move on...
and the night terrors go on for a few weeks, they are so vivid... and I get this other thing where I would feel as though I am drifting off into a deep sleep then I would wake up with a shock, as if someone stuck me with a pin... glad to hear your fish are ok and best wishes for your recovery... > Ron

My sense of taste has been unaltered fortunately, though I am slowly trying to get an appetite back. I do have numbness in odd places...my entire right hip, for one thing, is completely unable to be felt, as well as parts of my side. No idea how long that will last. I know what you mean about the small goals, Ron, a major accomplishment for me this morning was getting out of bed without any help. It was very painful but well worth the effort. You never realize how much you take for granted; sitting at the supper table through a meal for one thing was one achievement I pulled off yesterday for the first time. Showering too poses challenges I've never thought possible. One of my small goals included simply getting onto this website! You really learn to take life on day at a time and you can't let yourself get too frustrated about your circumstances. It's hard to feel helpless, like an infant again, but you learn to rely on others until you can rely on yourself. And I'm the kind of person who hates being dependant, but it has been a good learning experience regardless of the pain. Fantailer, glad to hear your night terrors become laughable in the light of day again...mine don't...but sometimes you have dreams that frighten you out of your wits at the time, then are only a joke when you wake up. 

Cheers Nossie, your lucky, secondary infections in the abdomen can be lethal.. and sleeping in one possie is only comfortable for a little while, that I remember too well... the hospital gave me a staph infection in my leg as well, it was on a steel rod in my femur... that was the second time they said I could lose my leg (you get a sick feeling when they say that to you), but in the end I won out again, although it took 3 years of treatment to get it out of my bone though... > Ron

Ron: Wow o___o I'm really glad you got to keep your leg! I don't know what I'd do, honestly, if I'd lose any of my little bits and pieces >>

Goldiegirl: True. But, it's been a couple of years now, and I actually think back on it with a happy feeling I was really happy to see everyone visiting me and all that It was in junior high, and I wasn't the most social creature there.... so getting a card from my classmates was totally cool xD
About that infection, at first, some doctor from Sweden or someplace said that I just have a minor infection and it'd go away with medication. Well, no. Next day I couldn't get up from the floor, just shivering :/ So I went with ambulance there and another acute surgery awaited. Lol, yea, they said I had this lump of pus there, size of an apple.

Arr, sorry about the rambling D:

Goldiegirl that night terror was a zokeeper holding a umbrella with an elephant squirting water on it with load noises. I don't get how it was scary.

Well, point being, in the end it'll only be a sort of temporary thing, the body is incredible when it comes to healing, and I'd say it goes pretty fast too! All you need is patience, rest and nutrition c:

My post-op appointment was yesterday, and the doctor said I was aneimic as well, Ron. I was wondering about the dark circles beneath my eyes and my fatigue...on iron supplements, hopefully that will do something. Calcium pills are also a must, as well as pain relievers.  I must admit I like getting all the cards and phone calls from people I sometimes don't even know!